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For Parents Only: Getting Inside the Head of Your Kid

Hardcover |English |1590529324 | 9781590529324

For Parents Only: Getting Inside the Head of Your Kid

Hardcover |English |1590529324 | 9781590529324
Overview
Shaunti Feldhahn and Lisa Rice take you inside the mind of teens and preteens through the same innovative approach that seized national attention in the best-selling books For Women Only, For Men Only, and For Young Women Only. For every bewildered parent, there's a kid longing to be understood. What parent hasn't occasionally looked at their beloved but bewildering offspring and wondered, What in the world is he thinking? or Why is my sweet little girl acting like that? Feldhahn and Rice explore the results of a nationwide survey and personal interviews with more than 1,000 real-life teens and tweens to tackle those things parents often don't "get" about their kids. You'll hear first-hand about the longings that drive your kids' seemingly illogical decisions, the truth behind those exasperating "attitude problems," and what your children would tell you if they could trust you to truly listen.
ISBN: 1590529324
ISBN13: 9781590529324
Author: Shaunti Feldhahn, Lisa A. Rice
Publisher: Multnomah
Format: Hardcover
PublicationDate: 2007-09-11
Language: English
PageCount: 192
Dimensions: 5.19 x 0.71 x 7.33 inches
Weight: 8.16 ounces
Shaunti Feldhahn and Lisa Rice take you inside the mind of teens and preteens through the same innovative approach that seized national attention in the best-selling books For Women Only, For Men Only, and For Young Women Only. For every bewildered parent, there's a kid longing to be understood. What parent hasn't occasionally looked at their beloved but bewildering offspring and wondered, What in the world is he thinking? or Why is my sweet little girl acting like that? Feldhahn and Rice explore the results of a nationwide survey and personal interviews with more than 1,000 real-life teens and tweens to tackle those things parents often don't "get" about their kids. You'll hear first-hand about the longings that drive your kids' seemingly illogical decisions, the truth behind those exasperating "attitude problems," and what your children would tell you if they could trust you to truly listen.
Editorial Reviews


Shaunti and Lisa have done an outstanding job talking about the issues, confusion, and dreams our kids face as they grow-and thus the issues we face as parents. Someone once said to me, 'God gives us the most important job in the world called parenting, and gives that job to inexperienced people.' That is so true. But as you understand the inner life of your child, you will be much better equipped to meet the challenges and joys of being a good parent. I encourage you to pick up this book and start the journey of understanding today."
-Jim Daly, president, Focus on the Family

"Shaunti and Lisa have boldly gone where no one has gone before: straight into the brain of a teenager! The insights they have found give us a unique peek into the hopes, fears, desires, and challenges facing the next generation. Savvy parents will read and respond to what they learn in this book, and their family will be better as a result."
-Dennis Rainey, president, FamilyLife

"I will be buying this book by the case. As a youth minister, I'm always trying to communicate to parents exactly what Shaunti and Lisa so eloquently and poignantly communicate in For Parents Only. Every parent of teens should read this brilliant book!"
-Dannah Gresh, author of And the Bride Wore White

"Sandra and I love this book! With two teenage boys and a daughter who just started middle school, we soaked up Shaunti and Lisa's insights and discoveries like sponges. This is not just another book on parenting. It is a fascinating look at the way your child's mind works. We plan to use For Parents Only as a curriculum in our home group."
-Andy Stanley, pastor, North Point Community Church

"Shaunti and Lisa dive into the deepest core of kids' hearts to bring parents amazingly insightful truths and advice. They hit the bull's-eye when it comes to advice on raising children in the twenty-first century!"
-Dr. Joe White, president of Kanakuk Kamps

"At times I felt like I was sitting at a school lunch table, listening in on how kids really feel about their parents and what they would like to tell them. Shaunti and Lisa do an exceptional job of researching the topic and then making very practical suggestions. This gets my Five-Star rating on the HomeWord.com web site."
-Jim Burns, Ph.D., President, HomeWord, and author of Confident Parenting

"I am so grateful for the hours of compassionate listening, ton of credible research, and weight of brutal honesty represented within the pages of this book. As a mother of three teenagers, I am the first to admit that I need help! Thank you, Shaunti and Lisa, for coming alongside on this wild, woolly, and wonderful adventure."
_Lisa Whelchel, best-selling author of Creative Correction, The Busy Mom's Guide to Prayer, and Taking Care of the "Me" in Mommy

"For Parents Only beautifully breaks down the communication code between parents and children. Shaunti and Lisa consistently support their findings with extensive research and rock-solid solutions. This book delivers and we highly recommend it!"
-Dr Gary and Barb Rosberg, America's Family Coaches, authors of The 5 Sex Needs of Men & Women and co-hosts of Dr. Gary and Barb Rosberg-Your Marriage Coaches

"Shaunti Feldhahn' s latest series of books have helped her readers unlock some of the mysteries of family relationships. Now she and Lisa Rice have given us keys to understanding our teenagers by hearing directly from them about why they do what they do. We only wish that this book had been written when our kids were younger!"
-Bob and Cheryl Reccord, speakers and co-authors of Launching Your Kids for Life

"Do you remember how Maria responded when Captain Von Trapp proposed marriage? That's right, she said, 'Let' s ask the children.' Instead of speculating and postulating and pontificating, Shaunti and Lisa have done a brilliant thing. They've asked the children. And the children-teenagers-have told them the truth. I commend this important book to you."
-Dr. Robert Wolgemuth, best-selling author of She Calls Me Daddy and Dad's Bible



Shaunti Feldhahn is a nationally syndicated newspaper columnist, public speaker, and a best-selling author whose books include
For Women Only. After working on Wall Street and Capitol Hill, this mother of two now applies her analytical skills to illuminating surprising truths about relationships.

Lisa A. Rice is the associate editor of
Christian Living magazine, the mother/foster mom of three teenager girls, and one teenage boy, and an experienced screenwriter and producer. She's also the coauthor, with Shaunti, of
For Young Women Only.

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Overview
Shaunti Feldhahn and Lisa Rice take you inside the mind of teens and preteens through the same innovative approach that seized national attention in the best-selling books For Women Only, For Men Only, and For Young Women Only. For every bewildered parent, there's a kid longing to be understood. What parent hasn't occasionally looked at their beloved but bewildering offspring and wondered, What in the world is he thinking? or Why is my sweet little girl acting like that? Feldhahn and Rice explore the results of a nationwide survey and personal interviews with more than 1,000 real-life teens and tweens to tackle those things parents often don't "get" about their kids. You'll hear first-hand about the longings that drive your kids' seemingly illogical decisions, the truth behind those exasperating "attitude problems," and what your children would tell you if they could trust you to truly listen.
ISBN: 1590529324
ISBN13: 9781590529324
Author: Shaunti Feldhahn, Lisa A. Rice
Publisher: Multnomah
Format: Hardcover
PublicationDate: 2007-09-11
Language: English
PageCount: 192
Dimensions: 5.19 x 0.71 x 7.33 inches
Weight: 8.16 ounces
Shaunti Feldhahn and Lisa Rice take you inside the mind of teens and preteens through the same innovative approach that seized national attention in the best-selling books For Women Only, For Men Only, and For Young Women Only. For every bewildered parent, there's a kid longing to be understood. What parent hasn't occasionally looked at their beloved but bewildering offspring and wondered, What in the world is he thinking? or Why is my sweet little girl acting like that? Feldhahn and Rice explore the results of a nationwide survey and personal interviews with more than 1,000 real-life teens and tweens to tackle those things parents often don't "get" about their kids. You'll hear first-hand about the longings that drive your kids' seemingly illogical decisions, the truth behind those exasperating "attitude problems," and what your children would tell you if they could trust you to truly listen.
Editorial Reviews


Shaunti and Lisa have done an outstanding job talking about the issues, confusion, and dreams our kids face as they grow-and thus the issues we face as parents. Someone once said to me, 'God gives us the most important job in the world called parenting, and gives that job to inexperienced people.' That is so true. But as you understand the inner life of your child, you will be much better equipped to meet the challenges and joys of being a good parent. I encourage you to pick up this book and start the journey of understanding today."
-Jim Daly, president, Focus on the Family

"Shaunti and Lisa have boldly gone where no one has gone before: straight into the brain of a teenager! The insights they have found give us a unique peek into the hopes, fears, desires, and challenges facing the next generation. Savvy parents will read and respond to what they learn in this book, and their family will be better as a result."
-Dennis Rainey, president, FamilyLife

"I will be buying this book by the case. As a youth minister, I'm always trying to communicate to parents exactly what Shaunti and Lisa so eloquently and poignantly communicate in For Parents Only. Every parent of teens should read this brilliant book!"
-Dannah Gresh, author of And the Bride Wore White

"Sandra and I love this book! With two teenage boys and a daughter who just started middle school, we soaked up Shaunti and Lisa's insights and discoveries like sponges. This is not just another book on parenting. It is a fascinating look at the way your child's mind works. We plan to use For Parents Only as a curriculum in our home group."
-Andy Stanley, pastor, North Point Community Church

"Shaunti and Lisa dive into the deepest core of kids' hearts to bring parents amazingly insightful truths and advice. They hit the bull's-eye when it comes to advice on raising children in the twenty-first century!"
-Dr. Joe White, president of Kanakuk Kamps

"At times I felt like I was sitting at a school lunch table, listening in on how kids really feel about their parents and what they would like to tell them. Shaunti and Lisa do an exceptional job of researching the topic and then making very practical suggestions. This gets my Five-Star rating on the HomeWord.com web site."
-Jim Burns, Ph.D., President, HomeWord, and author of Confident Parenting

"I am so grateful for the hours of compassionate listening, ton of credible research, and weight of brutal honesty represented within the pages of this book. As a mother of three teenagers, I am the first to admit that I need help! Thank you, Shaunti and Lisa, for coming alongside on this wild, woolly, and wonderful adventure."
_Lisa Whelchel, best-selling author of Creative Correction, The Busy Mom's Guide to Prayer, and Taking Care of the "Me" in Mommy

"For Parents Only beautifully breaks down the communication code between parents and children. Shaunti and Lisa consistently support their findings with extensive research and rock-solid solutions. This book delivers and we highly recommend it!"
-Dr Gary and Barb Rosberg, America's Family Coaches, authors of The 5 Sex Needs of Men & Women and co-hosts of Dr. Gary and Barb Rosberg-Your Marriage Coaches

"Shaunti Feldhahn' s latest series of books have helped her readers unlock some of the mysteries of family relationships. Now she and Lisa Rice have given us keys to understanding our teenagers by hearing directly from them about why they do what they do. We only wish that this book had been written when our kids were younger!"
-Bob and Cheryl Reccord, speakers and co-authors of Launching Your Kids for Life

"Do you remember how Maria responded when Captain Von Trapp proposed marriage? That's right, she said, 'Let' s ask the children.' Instead of speculating and postulating and pontificating, Shaunti and Lisa have done a brilliant thing. They've asked the children. And the children-teenagers-have told them the truth. I commend this important book to you."
-Dr. Robert Wolgemuth, best-selling author of She Calls Me Daddy and Dad's Bible



Shaunti Feldhahn is a nationally syndicated newspaper columnist, public speaker, and a best-selling author whose books include
For Women Only. After working on Wall Street and Capitol Hill, this mother of two now applies her analytical skills to illuminating surprising truths about relationships.

Lisa A. Rice is the associate editor of
Christian Living magazine, the mother/foster mom of three teenager girls, and one teenage boy, and an experienced screenwriter and producer. She's also the coauthor, with Shaunti, of
For Young Women Only.

Books - New and Used

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  • Used - Good: All pages and cover are intact (including the dust cover, if applicable). Spine may show signs of wear. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting. May include "From the library of" labels. Shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Item may be missing bundled media.
  • Used - Acceptable: All pages and the cover are intact, but shrink wrap, dust covers, or boxed set case may be missing. Pages may include limited notes, highlighting, or minor water damage but the text is readable. Item may but the dust cover may be missing. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting, but the text cannot be obscured or unreadable.

Note: Some electronic material access codes are valid only for one user. For this reason, used books, including books listed in the Used – Like New condition, may not come with functional electronic material access codes.

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  • Stevens Books offers FREE SHIPPING everywhere in the United States for ALL non-book orders, and $3.99 for each book.
  • Packages are shipped from Monday to Friday.
  • No additional fees and charges.

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The usual time for processing an order is 24 hours (1 business day), but may vary depending on the availability of products ordered. This period excludes delivery times, which depend on your geographic location.

Estimated delivery times:

  • Standard Shipping: 5-8 business days
  • Expedited Shipping: 3-5 business days

Shipping method varies depending on what is being shipped.  

Tracking
All orders are shipped with a tracking number. Once your order has left our warehouse, a confirmation e-mail with a tracking number will be sent to you. You will be able to track your package at all times. 

Damaged Parcel
If your package has been delivered in a PO Box, please note that we are not responsible for any damage that may result (consequences of extreme temperatures, theft, etc.). 

If you have any questions regarding shipping or want to know about the status of an order, please contact us or email to support@stevensbooks.com.

You may return most items within 30 days of delivery for a full refund.

To be eligible for a return, your item must be unused and in the same condition that you received it. It must also be in the original packaging.

Several types of goods are exempt from being returned. Perishable goods such as food, flowers, newspapers or magazines cannot be returned. We also do not accept products that are intimate or sanitary goods, hazardous materials, or flammable liquids or gases.

Additional non-returnable items:

  • Gift cards
  • Downloadable software products
  • Some health and personal care items

To complete your return, we require a tracking number, which shows the items which you already returned to us.
There are certain situations where only partial refunds are granted (if applicable)

  • Book with obvious signs of use
  • CD, DVD, VHS tape, software, video game, cassette tape, or vinyl record that has been opened
  • Any item not in its original condition, is damaged or missing parts for reasons not due to our error
  • Any item that is returned more than 30 days after delivery

Items returned to us as a result of our error will receive a full refund,some returns may be subject to a restocking fee of 7% of the total item price, please contact a customer care team member to see if your return is subject. Returns that arrived on time and were as described are subject to a restocking fee.

Items returned to us that were not the result of our error, including items returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address, will be refunded the original item price less our standard restocking fees.

If the item is returned to us for any of the following reasons, a 15% restocking fee will be applied to your refund total and you will be asked to pay for return shipping:

  • Item(s) no longer needed or wanted.
  • Item(s) returned to us due to an invalid or incomplete address.
  • Item(s) returned to us that were not a result of our error.

You should expect to receive your refund within four weeks of giving your package to the return shipper, however, in many cases you will receive a refund more quickly. This time period includes the transit time for us to receive your return from the shipper (5 to 10 business days), the time it takes us to process your return once we receive it (3 to 5 business days), and the time it takes your bank to process our refund request (5 to 10 business days).

If you need to return an item, please Contact Us with your order number and details about the product you would like to return. We will respond quickly with instructions for how to return items from your order.


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Depending on where you live, the time it may take for your exchanged product to reach you, may vary.

If you are shipping an item over $75, you should consider using a trackable shipping service or purchasing shipping insurance. We don’t guarantee that we will receive your returned item.

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