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Why Being Yourself Is a Bad Idea: And Other Countercultural Notions

Paperback |English |0281081794 | 9780281081790

Why Being Yourself Is a Bad Idea: And Other Countercultural Notions

Paperback |English |0281081794 | 9780281081790
Overview

Most people just want to be happy and to make a difference in the world.

We're often told we'll achieve this by being ourselves - but when we begin to reflect, that's not quite as simple as it sounds. All sorts of questions and countercultural notions arise. Maybe trying to 'be yourself' is not such a good idea after all? In this book Graham Tomlin dares us to let go of some of the assumptions we make about life. Drawing on current research, contemporary events and ancient wisdom, he offers an invitation to journey to places we may never have imagined before. In doing so, he vividly reveals how the revolution that Christianity began can still make remarkable sense of our experience of wonder, love, evil, justice, identity and freedom. Exploring these universal experiences in a down to earth, easy to read manner, Why Being Yourself is a Bad Idea is a book for anyone struggling with the search for identity and self-discovery, and will leave you uplifted and reassured that seeking God can and will help you to make sense of life. 'Intriguing and provocative, speaking to our deepest concerns and heaviest questions.' James Mumford, author of Vexed: Ethics beyond political tribes 'I kept saying "YES!" as I turned the pages of this book.'Pete Greig, author of How to Pray
ISBN: 0281081794
ISBN13: 9780281081790
Author: The Rt Revd Dr Graham Tomlin
Publisher: SPCK Publishing
Format: Paperback
PublicationDate: 2020-09-17
Language: English
PageCount: 192
Dimensions: 5.25 x 0.75 x 7.0 inches
Weight: 6.08 ounces

Most people just want to be happy and to make a difference in the world.

We're often told we'll achieve this by being ourselves - but when we begin to reflect, that's not quite as simple as it sounds. All sorts of questions and countercultural notions arise. Maybe trying to 'be yourself' is not such a good idea after all? In this book Graham Tomlin dares us to let go of some of the assumptions we make about life. Drawing on current research, contemporary events and ancient wisdom, he offers an invitation to journey to places we may never have imagined before. In doing so, he vividly reveals how the revolution that Christianity began can still make remarkable sense of our experience of wonder, love, evil, justice, identity and freedom. Exploring these universal experiences in a down to earth, easy to read manner, Why Being Yourself is a Bad Idea is a book for anyone struggling with the search for identity and self-discovery, and will leave you uplifted and reassured that seeking God can and will help you to make sense of life. 'Intriguing and provocative, speaking to our deepest concerns and heaviest questions.' James Mumford, author of Vexed: Ethics beyond political tribes 'I kept saying "YES!" as I turned the pages of this book.'Pete Greig, author of How to Pray
Editorial Reviews


Here we have a gripping (even exciting) new approach to priesthood . . . almost every page is rich with biblical, theological, historical and practical wisdom - to be read, considered, and then read again!--Gordon Kuhrt


Graham Tomlin is Bishop of Kensington in London UK, and President of St Mellitus College. He taught theology within Oxford University, specialising in the Reformation period. He was Dean of St Mellitus College which is now one of the largest Anglican theological colleges in the world. He is the author of many books and articles, including
Looking through the Cross (the Archbishop of Canterbury's Lent Book for 2014)
, and
Bound to be Free: The Paradox of Freedom.
 

Revd Dr Graham Tomlin is Principal of St Mellitus College, and of St Paul's Theological Centre. He holds degrees in both English Literature and Theology from Oxford University and completed his PhD through the University of Exeter. He mainly teaches historical theology, particularly specialising in Patristics and the Reformation period. He is the author of many articles and books on a broad range of subjects and is married to Janet with two adult children.

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Overview

Most people just want to be happy and to make a difference in the world.

We're often told we'll achieve this by being ourselves - but when we begin to reflect, that's not quite as simple as it sounds. All sorts of questions and countercultural notions arise. Maybe trying to 'be yourself' is not such a good idea after all? In this book Graham Tomlin dares us to let go of some of the assumptions we make about life. Drawing on current research, contemporary events and ancient wisdom, he offers an invitation to journey to places we may never have imagined before. In doing so, he vividly reveals how the revolution that Christianity began can still make remarkable sense of our experience of wonder, love, evil, justice, identity and freedom. Exploring these universal experiences in a down to earth, easy to read manner, Why Being Yourself is a Bad Idea is a book for anyone struggling with the search for identity and self-discovery, and will leave you uplifted and reassured that seeking God can and will help you to make sense of life. 'Intriguing and provocative, speaking to our deepest concerns and heaviest questions.' James Mumford, author of Vexed: Ethics beyond political tribes 'I kept saying "YES!" as I turned the pages of this book.'Pete Greig, author of How to Pray
ISBN: 0281081794
ISBN13: 9780281081790
Author: The Rt Revd Dr Graham Tomlin
Publisher: SPCK Publishing
Format: Paperback
PublicationDate: 2020-09-17
Language: English
PageCount: 192
Dimensions: 5.25 x 0.75 x 7.0 inches
Weight: 6.08 ounces

Most people just want to be happy and to make a difference in the world.

We're often told we'll achieve this by being ourselves - but when we begin to reflect, that's not quite as simple as it sounds. All sorts of questions and countercultural notions arise. Maybe trying to 'be yourself' is not such a good idea after all? In this book Graham Tomlin dares us to let go of some of the assumptions we make about life. Drawing on current research, contemporary events and ancient wisdom, he offers an invitation to journey to places we may never have imagined before. In doing so, he vividly reveals how the revolution that Christianity began can still make remarkable sense of our experience of wonder, love, evil, justice, identity and freedom. Exploring these universal experiences in a down to earth, easy to read manner, Why Being Yourself is a Bad Idea is a book for anyone struggling with the search for identity and self-discovery, and will leave you uplifted and reassured that seeking God can and will help you to make sense of life. 'Intriguing and provocative, speaking to our deepest concerns and heaviest questions.' James Mumford, author of Vexed: Ethics beyond political tribes 'I kept saying "YES!" as I turned the pages of this book.'Pete Greig, author of How to Pray
Editorial Reviews


Here we have a gripping (even exciting) new approach to priesthood . . . almost every page is rich with biblical, theological, historical and practical wisdom - to be read, considered, and then read again!--Gordon Kuhrt


Graham Tomlin is Bishop of Kensington in London UK, and President of St Mellitus College. He taught theology within Oxford University, specialising in the Reformation period. He was Dean of St Mellitus College which is now one of the largest Anglican theological colleges in the world. He is the author of many books and articles, including
Looking through the Cross (the Archbishop of Canterbury's Lent Book for 2014)
, and
Bound to be Free: The Paradox of Freedom.
 

Revd Dr Graham Tomlin is Principal of St Mellitus College, and of St Paul's Theological Centre. He holds degrees in both English Literature and Theology from Oxford University and completed his PhD through the University of Exeter. He mainly teaches historical theology, particularly specialising in Patristics and the Reformation period. He is the author of many articles and books on a broad range of subjects and is married to Janet with two adult children.

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Items returned to us as a result of our error will receive a full refund,some returns may be subject to a restocking fee of 7% of the total item price, please contact a customer care team member to see if your return is subject. Returns that arrived on time and were as described are subject to a restocking fee.

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